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No More People Pleasing!

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    Do you always put yourself second? Come and learn effective techniques to help you put you own needs first and develop healthier relationships too.

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    Description

    Tertiary Education Commission (TEC) course fee subsidy

    This course offers a course fee subsidy through funding from the TEC for:  

    • NZ citizens;
    • Those who hold a residency-class visa;
    • Individuals granted refugee status;
    • In some cases spouses of NZ citizens and permanent migrants may also qualify - please contact the office to enquire.

    Conditions:

    • Registrants must be aged 16 years or older.
    • Registrants must not be currently enrolled at a secondary school.
    • You should attend at least 80% of your classes to qualify for a fee subsidy.
    • We need to collect extra information such as age, ethnicity, educational achievement and gender for statistical purposes.
    • You must provide evidence of NZ citizenship, residency or refugee status .

    If you are unable to meet these conditions, please contact the office to discuss your situation. The subsidised course fee is $50.

    Course description

    Do you always put yourself second? Come and learn effective techniques to help you to put your own needs first. Based on the book, No More Mr Nice Guy, this course has been adapted to be relevant for men and women, as most of us have people-pleasing habits. We will discuss the characteristics that make someone a 'people pleaser'. Each week we will do activities to identify behaviours that don't work for you and how to change them. The activities are designed to help you discover more effective ways of meeting your own needs which will make your relationships with others healthier.

    Expected learning outcomes

    • Express yourself more effectively
    • Learn new ways to get your needs met
    • Create the kind of relationships you really want
    • Feel more powerful and confident

    What do you need to bring?

    Just yourself. We'll provide all the materials for this course ($8).

     

    Testimonials

    I'm really enjoying the people pleasing course so far! I think that there is a great group of us in the class and Julia does a wonderful job at facilitating safe and open conversations. The homework is also great for self reflection. I think my only negative about the course may be that 6 weeks is not quite enough time to really work through all of the course content - it may be better formatted as an 8 week course in my opinion. 2022

    I am seeing real progress in my ability to advocate for myself and not be as people pleasing as I was before the course began and have been recommending it to my friends and co-workers for next year. 2022

    I would like comment that I really enjoyed the class - Julia West was a very competent facilitator which made the group a safe environment to share experiences. A 2022

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